Nurturing Community Connections
In my endeavor to start a ‘slow’ community here at SLC since 2022. I sought out several business gatherings to find my niche, but none resonated well with me. I was either procrastinating or feeling unsettled about attending most of these gatherings. However, 2023 still surprises me; I found myself having more intimate coffee dates, forging new friendships, and learning to be present in each moment.
There were times I felt disillusioned. It took me a while to learn and shift my mind to indulge in new creative pursuits. Simply having fun with my art while waiting. A gentle reminder that I've toiled, and I can set aside time to enjoy life. Letting go of negative sales, and making memories with friends and family.
This solo entrepreneurship, often juggling multiple roles, can feel incredibly lonely without a support system. Fortunately, no problem is undefeatable, but it may take a challenging journey to resolve them. Nevertheless, nothing is impossible.
Working from home for 3-4 years, especially in the realm of social media, can feel isolating. I’ve cultivated continual awakening moments for self-reflection, journaling, and setting aside time for spiritual guidance were essential to prevent burning out quickly. Thus, starting the day with a deliberate intention becomes crucial as it sets the tone for the rest of the day.
Last November, James enrolled me in BFT, a global fitness program. Over time, it transformed into a cornerstone of my mornings, a place where I sweated it out with a consistent group and coaches. After two constant months, it evolved into an environment where I exchanged both grits and grins with a community that felt intentional and welcoming. Being acknowledged by name, celebrating progress from strength to strength.
While a significant portion of my work revolves around online communities that wield the power to foster belonging, it's crucial to reflect on the impact of our actions—whether we find ourselves dwelling in echo chambers or remaining open to diverse perspectives. This is perhaps one of the reasons why many of us experience burnout while navigating the vast expanse of social media.
As I reflect on 2023, I interpret that communities should embrace people from any life season, fostering connection and compassion. Does it seem our world may be missing the intended mark by excluding others based on resonance, forming cliques? Are we inclusive or exclusive in the communities we seek?
Many authentic artists desire to inspire and encourage others through their art yet limitations arise when we surrender control to algorithms. As the system keeps people in a box, are we taking proactive steps to break free from it?
“Communities should embrace people from any life season, fostering connection and compassion.”
Here’s another good old mission statement at WeWork that revolves around individuality within a community:
"When we started WeWork in 2010, we aimed to build more than beautiful, shared office spaces. We desired to create a community—a place where individuals joined to become part of a greater whole. A place redefining success by personal fulfillment, not just the bottom line. Community is our catalyst."
Do we assess where we stand in the communities we've engaged in? Are we stereotyping our audience, friends, or colleagues? Intentionally closing off relationships may align with the enemy's tactics; akin to fostering individualism. Many solo entrepreneurs spiral into a "me, myself, and I" mindset, forgoing community presence to bounce ideas or share the workload, burying themselves in the pursuit of success defined by societal standards.
As I introspect this topic with God, I found that the enemy thrives on creating a sense of smallness within the church as well as the marketplaces. He seems to capitalize on stagnation, discouraging new friendships and execution of creative ideas. Why are most believers stuck in the wilderness? Why do we not venture into church or gatherings? Why do we carry scarred emotions from starting anew and only prompt the formation of resonating communities?
Are we missing the seasons by choice or by the pressure of society that sets a quiet rule on how we should behave?
Does coming together in larger communities, help people beyond individualism and cliques? Could this be vital for spiritual growth and fulfilling God's intentions for the church? I say, evaluate your gatherings. Do they uplift, strengthen, focus, refresh, and encourage you? As far as self-introspect goes, do they add layers of good into your life with them?
When God established His church, there were no denominations. He created one church in Acts 2, calling for unity and steadfastness. His unified church endures to this day, offering us the opportunity to be a part of it.
Let's cease comparing others to our seasons. Regardless of the valleys we fell into, we are inherently wired for connection and driven to scale mountains in pursuit of light. Opening our hearts to unconditional love, fostering peace, and living for those around us through creativity is achievable.
Sharing my journey across communities signifies my growth—from solitude to seeking new beginnings. The friendships forged are treasured and intended to initiate relational dialogues rather than merely creating products or viral content.
Achieving goals and experiencing fulfillment can hinge upon our relationships with God and people. Allow God’s version of success to consume our thoughts and hearts; the truth that outlives technological advancements and individual success.
I hope this discourse encourages you to look beyond and realize the sky's limitless expanse —aim for an open heaven. Engaging in broader, (even if occasionally uncomfortable), communities sets us on a path to greater purpose. In God's realm, we're called for His grand designs. If He is God, the architect of the earth, He can guide us for generations.
God's intention for your success:
Proverbs 16:3
“Commit your actions to the LORD, and your plans will succeed.”
When we surrender our plans and actions to the Lord, acknowledging His sovereignty, He directs our steps and ensures the success of our endeavors according to His divine purpose.
Proverbs 22:4
“True humility and fear of the LORD lead to riches, honor, and long life.”
Humility and reverence for the Lord are qualities that pave the way to genuine success. As we honor God and submit to His ways, He bestows upon us riches, honor, and a blessed life.
Proverbs 28:20
“The trustworthy person will get a rich reward, but a person who wants quick riches will get into trouble.”
Trustworthiness and integrity lead to lasting success. Pursuing quick riches through dishonest means only leads to trouble and disappointment.
These verses underline why God desires us to discern success wisely. Material wealth can't compare to winning souls and loving our neighbors as God loves us. Each of us bears a unique mission; on the path of victory.
Let’s embrace this victorious journey—both sunshine and rain will nourish your soil in due time. Crafting a purposeful life is more fulfilling than mere existence. Remember, you exist for relationships, to seek your self-worth and identity in Christ; set apart.
